Lunch Is My Favorite Subject
When asked what their favorite subject is, someone is bound to say, “Lunch.” It gets a laugh, maybe even an eye roll, and usually sounds like nothing more than a hungry student’s joke. But lunch means more than the food being eaten during the allotted 45-minute to an hour time period that marks the a-little-more-than-halfway point of the school day.
Of course, food is part of the appeal. Whether it is the Thursday pasta from the school concessionaire, the P55 five-piece pork siomai, or packed baon, students look forward to finally eating something after a long stretch of classes. Some senior high students may even leave campus during lunch, free to choose where they want to go and what they want to eat. Nevertheless, wherever students choose to spend their lunch—on campus or beyond it—carries its own kind of importance.
What makes lunch meaningful, then, is not only the meal but also the conversations built around it. At first glance, the cafeteria seems like the last place where deeper conversations could happen. Chairs scrape, wrappers crinkle, and the voices of students from different grade levels overlap all at once. At its busiest, the cafeteria can feel unpleasant, chaotic, and messy—a place that makes it seemingly impossible to focus on a task or finish your train of thought. And yet, despite all that, students still have some of their most genuine conversations there. Not only that, even without assigned seating, people naturally return to the same tables and corners, finding comfort in familiar routines and familiar company. The people students eat with shape the experience.
So why is it that so many genuine conversations can arise from the bustling environment of the cafeteria? At first, it seems almost contradictory. How can a place so loud and seemingly distracting make room for meaningful exchanges? Perhaps that is because of the spontaneous nature of lunch conversations that range from a class story, a complaint about homework, or a random thought that somehow becomes an actual discussion. Around close friends, conversation becomes easier, louder, and more honest. Noise does not necessarily mean distraction. If anything, that cafeteria’s constant noise is proof that the same familiar space can hold different stories every day.
A lot of what students are expected to do in school happens inside the classroom. It is, after all, where lessons are taught, tasks are submitted, and understanding is measured. But some of the most memorable and meaningful parts of school take place outside of it. Long after quiz scores, presentations, and seatworks are forgotten, students will remember who they shared their meals with, so perhaps saying one’s favorite subject is lunch may not be such a ridiculous joke after all.